Relationships of any kind, has its challenges and implications depending on the angle one is looking at it. The same can be said about love relationships. Making the decision to fall in love with someone is a personal decision and has to take that individual to take a bold step, bearing in mind all the consequences.
But for De Lady Rev, before any individual decides to go into a love relationship, there are few things to take careful note of, while ensuring that you are ready to take that “long walk”.
By so doing, she has underscored four points to be considered when contemplating to go into love relationship. She made this known on Showbiz Agenda hosted by Sammy Flex on Zylofon 102.1 FM.
The first point to note according to De Lady Rev is understand yourself. She explained that “you can’t give what you don’t have. There is no way you can understand the next person if you don’t understand yourself”
Stressing that it is very important “that you understand yourself before you get into a relationship with another person”
Her second point has to do with understanding one’s partner. She noted that one of the most important action or act in having a fruitful or lasting relationship is to “study and understand your partner”.
This she held can be done in different ways, some of which she said is doing a bit, if not comprehensive backgrounds checks on your potential suitor which will be able to reveal the person’s way of thinking, vision for the relationship and love language that will be acceptable by the two.
Understand the kind of relationship you have, is the third point to consider according to De Lady Rev. For her, this has to do with issues of comparison, as in comparing your partner to another person outside the relationship.
“Comparing your relationship with others is not ideal because we all don’t have the same kind of relationship. What you are building with your partner is different from what others are building so stay focus and understand your kind of Relationship you have” she advised.
De Lady Rev in her fourth point talked about taking time to understand the Ending. “Most time we find it very difficult to understand that the Relationship is over, when your partner wants an out. Accept it and move on. Understand that they broke their promise to you and they didn’t love as much as you loved them.”
Don’t disgrace yourself with fighting back when they are not ready to let you back. Just understand it’s ended and move on with your life, she said.
